Happiness starts with Commitment. Whether it’s to your marriage vows, or loyalty to your significant other, an employer, a friend, family members, or to raising a child, success begins with the intention, the integrity, the determination to keep up with the relationship.
One thing that factors into any relationship is the power of choice.
We can choose successful relationships, which are built on a foundation of commitment, trust, exchange, a communication of looks, words, touch, scent, even connection is made, subtle or overt. A relationship has begun. Just as the secret of success in Real Estate is “Location, Location, Location,” in relationships it’s “Communication, Communication, Communication.”
Understanding and respecting the other person’s perspective, even if you don’t agree, and being willing to listen are essential if you want a harmonious relationship with anyone.
Love is the experience of selflessness within oneself and love is the power beyond the being because love is the totality of the being. There is no happiness without love.
love, krishna (kelly) 🙂
A broken heart and pained soul wants to give up on love altogether.
The reason to give love another shot, We’ve learned, is that by loving better and deeper, we become even more whole. Our hurt and tears clear the fog around our heart and illuminate the soul. The journey to love is a journey to one’s self, your highest, most sacred and loving self.
Here are a few ways to open up to love again.
Let go of pain.
You can’t let go of pain by resisting it. You could avoid the pain for some time, but in order to move forward you must fully embrace the pain. Embracing the pain means experiencing loss, grief and sadness.
The only way to stop blaming others is to forgive them. No matter how grave the offense or how unacceptable their behavior, your healing begins when you let go. Yes, it was unfair; yes, it was injustice; and yes, they did you wrong. But there’s nothing to be done now but forgive.
Let go of resistance.
Although love can be painful and heart-breaking, be willing to open your heart anyway. Love can only bloom if you’re open to love in your life. Set the intention for love to enter again. Be open to meeting new people, be open to being vulnerable, and be open to falling in love again.
Let go of shutting down.
When you close your heart and feelings to others, you may avoid pain but you’ll also miss out on happiness and joy. Seek to be your most honest self. Instead of shutting down, be yourself in the world, which will only make you more attractive. By being true to yourself, you’ll also attract people who are a better fit for you.
Let go of your blocks keeping you from experiencing divine love. Let go and choose love again.
A surprise gift could easily be the best way to surprise your husband as birthday celebrations are approaching or if you just want to do something sweet for your man, read our five fun ways to surprise your husband. He will love it!
1. Create a photo slide show or music mix mp3 for him. Pull together some of his favorite photos and select the music that both represents your relationship.
2. Give him a ‘just because’ gift. You don’t have to spend tons of money to come up with a creative gift he will love.
3. King for a day. Let him write down his perfect day for you, what would be written on that list? Then spend an entire day to do as many things on that list as possible.
4. Make a love trail. Use rose petals, or his favorite candy, whatever he loves to lead him to a special place where the two of you can be alone under the full moon in the beautiful moonlight.
5. Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner. Throw a dinner party and invite his favorite people to come celebrate him with you. It could be his closest friends, colleagues, family, and others he’d enjoy having dinner with and who love him enough to celebrate.
Every woman, once in a while, could surprise her husband. Little surprises will not only make your husband happy, but they also add spice and change up the routine in your marriage.
A soulmate is someone you bond with on a soul level. It’s a person, or even a pet, that comes into your life for a special connection that greatly enriches your life and helps you grow. This is someone who helps you see yourself more clearly and more lovingly – and this helps you to progress spiritually.
Soulmate connections could be a significant component of your success. After all, soulmates help catalyze full expression of your life purpose. They provide helpful support in obvious and not-so-obvious ways – and introducing you to someone who can open new doors of opportunity. You both bring out the best qualities of each other.
Soulmates are not random. Since the connection is at a soul level, the two souls are involved in orchestrating the meeting and other happenstance. It’s common for this connection to occur over a number of lifetimes, resulting in a strong bond. That’s why when you first meet, you can feel like you are old friends – there’s an ease with each other that comes from soul remembrance of long experience and lives shared.
What happens is that by knowing mates as souls in different circumstances over time, you bond and help one another grow. Your strong soul bonds over time magnetize you together again and again. .
In spirit’s view, there is a unique purpose to each connection and it stands on its own. Being with one soulmate rather than another does not take away from the special bonds each partnership has. From a cosmic perspective, you are an eternal being having a series of experiences in this physical reality. Sometimes you grow the most from chaos & conflict, that catalyzes a deeper inner questioning.
To see and appreciate the gift of the relationship in the present moment.
Stay in-the-now and heart-centered with each person you meet. Over time you will discover soulmate bonds with a few more people. Give it your best, to learn from each one, listening to what your heart tells you about the connection and what it means in the current moment. Think of each soulmate connection as another opportunity to be loving to yourself and others.
It’s all about the Love!
Kelly Krishna Dunn